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In
the case of funerals particularly, appropriate rituals
and sensitive ceremonies can help partners, families
and friends to deal better with the grief, loss and
dislocation which inevitably come with the death of
loved ones.
In
preparing funeral ceremonies, I take care to consult
with families to ensure that the ceremonies are crafted
to help those left behind find closure, but also to
celebrate the life of the person they have lost. I believe
that it is a privilege and a worthwhile vocation to
help families find some peace and comfort at such difficult
times in their lives.
The
most important things I bring as a funeral celebrant
are:
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Respect
- for those who have died, and for those who are
suffering the consequences of death |
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Diligence
- in consulting families, and in writing and delivering
the best possible ceremonies honoring those who
have gone and those who are left behind |
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Care
- in helping people find comfort and closure in
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In
light of my maturity and wide experience, I am comfortable
in dealing with all kinds of loss, including the difficult
circumstances with which other celebrants may not be
comfortable, such as the death of children and young
people, or death by suicide.
I
can also help with other important parts of the funeral
ceremony:
THE
EULOGY - This is a part of the funeral ceremony
which records and celebrates the life of the loved one
who has passed away. It is in many ways the centre piece
of a civil funeral ceremony. I can show you how to prepare
a eulogy which reflects the person who was your loved
one, or write one for you if you may not be able to
do it yourself
READINGS
- Many helpful words have been written by others about
death, grief and recovery. Let me help you find the
ones that best fit your loved one, and the way you feel.
MUSIC
- Music can bring people together, create an atmosphere,
help a smooth transition between phases of a ceremony.
I can show you a wide range of music to enhance the
celebration of your loved one's life.
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